les enfants

i was picked on the shoulder by my oldest sis as she was trying to point me to a guy from the crowd, whispering. this was during my other sister’s wedding reception couple of months ago.

“look at that man”

he was tall-ish, thin, with james dean black hairdo, looking sharp in his black ray-ban, ironed out white t-shirt and long pants. a bit over the top looking i must say, especially when you are attending your friend’s daughter’s wedding.

“that’s emak’s ex-boyfriend. lucky abah masuk minang dulu, kalau tak…kau bayangkan….”

*giggles

now i’d imagine 25 odd years from now when we become the subjects of the conversations….

on the same note, 2010 has been a blooming year for baby booms amongst my circles. congratulations on conceiving, delivering, turning 1, 2, 3 or 4. children today are indeed the wealth of tomorrow.

i’m back to studies and work planning. few documents ready and i’m all set iAllah. it’s about time to put the brain to one or two focuses rather than drifting to hopeful dreams nonsense. i can escape from mom’s eyes nagging (they don’t need mouth to nag these days, just by looking) and stop being institutionalize in the room sulking post-delusional-nagging.

i’m also back to baby adoption option. ha. why the need of emotional drains and relationships ga-ga when you can cut short to the end product? well yeah, unlike some people, i know i might not be able to proudly upload the picture of my full bottle pumped up breastmilk on facebook (well even if i could lactate with medications still i wouldn’t too), or proudly and overly confess that my children are indeed the cutest and i just can’t get enough of them! (ok ok we get it, they’re adorable, just be cool about it..) duh.. (well, sorry for the harsh examples, sometimes a little discretion is needed in life i think). but yeah, a non-biological child is a child too. at least we got one less parentless child a parent. right?

pardon moi on the parents bashing again. hahaha..i probably won’t understand you guys till i become one one day..hahahaa (laughing again)